From 1/6/1996 to 1/8/1996, 30.7 inches of snow fell in Philadelphia.
My husband and I lived in NE Philadelphia for 23 years. Our row house was located on a small one-way street, with parking on both sides. There were several snowstorms in 1996. One in particular brought much havoc into our neighborhood. It was an all-day snow socker, which conveniently ended at 9:00PM. As all of us gathered outside to shovel through the damages, a plan emerged.
We knew we would be trapped for days, with no hope of any city assistance. It was decided that we would get ourselves out of the mess by working together. One of our neighbors had access to a snow plough. Every able-bodied person, teenagers included, set themselves to the task at hand. One by one, two by two, alone and side by side, we dug every car out of the snow. There were several elderly neighbors who gladly threw their car keys from their windows when we knocked on their doors to explain our idea. I can still see and hear those keys flying through the air.
The women who were not shoveling canvassed the street with coffee, tea, hot chocolate, gloves, hats, scarves. There was so much snow, we made every child’s dream come true when snow forts appeared on their front lawns the next morning.
The final act was a drama in itself. Each car was moved out of its spot, cleared of snow, plowed out of their spot, and re-parked. Clearly, there were moments of danger. Clearly, it was exhausting. All was done before dawn’s shocked arrival at the sight of mission accomplished. The Noble Act of Neighbors ended.
Thereafter, parking was a non-event. It has been many years since I’ve thought of that crisis. My mind’s eye still sees the men’s arms flailing like speed skaters, their efforts causing the snow to part like the Red Sea. Just as the Amish raised the barn in the movie “Witness,” we raised the bar of decency and conquered the aftermath of the storm. There was no better moment than that one.
Some of you who might read this were part of that miracle. Know how very grateful I am to have been your neighbor, to have worked shovel to shovel with you that night.
My mother would always say that good neighbors are a gift from God. That’s how my husband and I were raised. That’s how my husband and I raised our shovels, did the coffee runs, and caught jangling keys before they could be lost in the white avalanches.
Thank you again, former wonderful neighbors of Mayfair. You will always have a special place in my heart. I remain forever grateful.
Linda M. Romanowski Linda M. Romanowski returned to Rosemont College (Class of 1975) to obtain an MFA in Creative Writing, Non-Fiction in 2021. Her thesis, earned with distinction, became her debut hybrid Italian memoir, Final Touchstones, published by Brown Posey Press, an imprint of Sunbury Press in January 2023. Her non-fiction and poetry publications include The City Key, the Mario Lanza Institute Facebook page and website, Moonstone Arts, Ovunque Siamo, and Vine Leaves Press. Her book reviews appear in Philadelphia Stories magazine, the Italian American Herald newspaper, and the US Review of Books. The Historic Society of Pennsylvania and the Library Company of Philadelphia accepted Final Touchstones into their collections in 2023. Final Touchstones earned Finalist status for the Eric Hoffer Book Award for 2023, for memoir, culture, and poetry, and is nominated for their Legacy category for 2025. “Final Touchstones” won the Sunbury Press 2023 and 2025 SUNNY Award for Non-Fiction. “Bearing Witness,” an excerpt from Final Touchstones was included in A Conspiracy of Ravens, A Collection of Work by Rosemont College MFA Alumni, Spring 2025.Linda is a member of the Book Authors of Southeastern Pennsylvania and can be found at www.LindaMRomanowski.com.



